I was hoping someone in this forum could help me with my current life partners knowledge on pollen in the home and how we can minimize it during pollen season. My husband and I have been together for 14+ years, and over these last 14 years he refuses to make minor lifestyle changes during allergy season. I have accute allergies to pollen, tree pollen, and grass pollen specifically. I have had these allegies my whole life. Like I am sure many of you, my doctors have always told me to keep all the doors and windows closed during pollen season to help keep pollen out of the home. My husband refuses keep the windows closed. He use to leave them open at night and told me, " pollen does not come into the windows at night" ( not joking). He has since stopped opening the windows at night because we have put in an air conditioner. He still however, refuses to stop opening the window when he takes a shower. He again informs me, " Pollen can not come into the window when steam is going out, its physics".
If anyone in this forum could help enlighten him I would greatly appreciate it. I am currently taking 2 medications to keep my allergies at bay, and would appreciate my husband being more empathetic to my allergy needs.